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Essays by grief counselors who understand what you're going through.
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Understanding Grief

What grief really is, how it works, and why the old models got it wrong

Grief Is Not a Problem to Solve

Grief Is Not a Problem to Solve

Why the five stages model failed you, and what actually helps

Almost every new client sits on my green velvet sofa and stares at the box of tissues on the coffee table. They look at the cardboard cube as if it is an elaborate trap.

Dr. Elena Marsh 11 min read

Men and Grief: Why He Went Back to Work on Monday

James Whitfield 11 min read

When Grief Won't Move: Understanding Complicated and Prolonged Grief

Dr. Elena Marsh 13 min read

Types of Loss

Every loss is different. These essays honor that.

The Grief Nobody Sees: When Your Loss Doesn't Come with a Funeral

The Grief Nobody Sees: When Your Loss Doesn't Come with a Funeral

Ambiguous loss, estrangement, and the pain of grieving someone who is still alive

The rain streaks the glass of my Vancouver office on Tuesday afternoons while clients sit across from me and apologize for taking up space. They fold their hands in their laps.

Catherine Fournier 10 min read

Finding Your Way

Not moving on. Moving with.

You Don't Have to Let Go: The Science of Continuing Bonds

You Don't Have to Let Go: The Science of Continuing Bonds

The old model said move on. The new science says carry them with you.

I spent the first decade of my career walking the quiet linoleum corridors of a palliative care ward in South London. It was deeply repetitive work.

James Whitfield 10 min read

Your Body Keeps Your Grief: Why You Can't Think Your Way Through Loss

Dr. Priya Sharma 10 min read

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